Tuesday, 6 December 2011

I think this is a hundred.

Well a hundred blog posts. Not all of them exactly meaningful but they were still posts. And I believe I promised you some writing. So her we go. It's called Phase 1. Phase 2 is currently in the works.

Phase 1


She was excited and I was terrified. I’m social enough usually, well by social I mean I talk to people and laugh at the appropriate moments. But this really wasn’t my thing. There were going to be huge amounts of people there, plus dancing. I can dance well enough, and that’s actually one of the defining features of me. People know me for my ability to dance. Usually that would instantly make me gay but having a girlfriend does tend to help defray these kinds of accusations. But anyway dancing in front of other people isn’t my thing. I don’t want to put myself out there like that.

I feel at home in formal clothing, wearing it in normal situations helps to set me apart from people. But I always added that small piece of street style. To roll up one of the shirt sleeves, stuff like that. But the down side of that is when people get dressed up for things like this ball, I look no different to normal. Except for the fact I keep my shirt sleeves down. In fact the only time I ever get remarks on my clothing is when I wear something that isn’t formal. People have actually gasped when seeing me in board shorts before, which I wear all the time at my house.

But me in formal clothing, looking completely normal for me, I was waiting at my girlfriend’s house. I’d been there for a long time, a few hours at least. But this would be the first time that I would see her fully dressed up with make-up and all.

And there she was, dressed in a pale green dress that perfectly matched her eyes at that point. I’m reliably informed and can confirm that her eyes do change colour. For a moment she was all I could see. People talk about how they say something so beautiful that it takes their breath away, well I could breathe fine. But I couldn’t take my eyes from her, like I was drinking all too readily in the sight of her. She had put glitter around her eyes and it trailed toward her temples tapering to a point somewhere in front of them. It made them stand out; it drew your attention, because those eyes were full of light and happiness. She was happy because she got a night of fun and laughter with her friends and me. What a pity she’d picked me. I think looking back at it that I made her night better and worse. Better because I was there, living in different places made it difficult to spend time with each other and every second was a blessing. And worse because we were doing something that I hated, and had made it plainly known. I should have been more responsive, or at least pretend that I was interested.

But where was I. Ah yes how beautiful she looked. I have never seen anything more beautiful. But when you look at it objectively I’ve only lived for 17 years. Theoretically I still have another 53 or more years to see more beautiful things. But so far… In a respect it was like putting me in board shorts. You just don’t expect it. Except with me and board shorts not much changes, I don’t mysteriously get more handsome because I’m wearing board shorts. Just like I preferred to spend my time in formal clothing she preferred to wear anything colourful, zany, a little bit odd, it matched her personality. If you know me well I don’t think full formal represents me. I’m just a little bit too silly for it. So when I saw the change from that zany colourful and slightly odd clothes to the formal dress. It was a bit shocking. But the silly little bashful smile reminded me that she was still the girl I remembered.

As she walked towards me I stepped forward and hugged her. “You look beautiful.” I whispered. Her smile grew a little wider as she whispered back, “Thanks.” And there was my mother making me feel more uncomfortable than what I already was. She wasn’t doing anything bad she was just being her, but that still didn’t stop me from being uncomfortable. But it was more out of apprehension rather than embarrassment. Mums are like that I think. They rarely every embarrass us but they do tend to look they’re going to at any moment. Photos because everybody loves photos of their kids dressed up. But I just looked like I normally did.

I had no jacket, that’s the one part of the formal attire I neither have nor think that I could pull off in public domains. So I never bought one and never thought to rent one for this event. A slight oversight on my part but then I would have complained at how uncomfortable it was. I hadn’t expected to enjoy it and I think that either way I would have somehow forced myself to find something to complain about. If you tell yourself something enough it becomes a truth.

We were going to be going to the Ball in a limo. And it was comfortable enough, as you expect a Limo to be. And it had drinks and a very loud sound system, something that the state of my ears attested to after the Limo ride. We got out halfway there to take a photo, as if I hadn’t had enough photos taken of me that night. I should really have made more out those moments. They were the easiest bit of the night.
When we arrived at the venue there were a lot of people milling around outside the doors. I didn’t feel any different, although I did start acting like a puppy and following her around. She was familiar, these people weren’t. And I’m not exactly the person who likes change the most. I objected vehemently to a holiday to Australia because something my parents planned involved people I don’t know. I also hated the idea of moving, because I had my house figured. I knew the perfect places to sit in the sun. I knew the places that I loved to be and the places that you should avoid. Plus the ball was in another city. It just seemed like the icing on the cake. I didn’t know anybody, it was a social situation and I had no idea where I was.

The ball was themed carnival. So there were a lot of stripes and one of the Teachers was dressed as a clown. Apparently this was her favourite teacher. Quite honestly I could see why. I mean I’d never heard him speak or seen him in any other situation but somehow you can just tell. I didn’t imagine her favourite teacher to be the kind who had their hands clasped and was gravely greeting people, just no.
And we got searched as we came in. I’ll be honest I wasn’t exactly expecting it. But I suppose in a bigger place than I’m used to they have problems that I’m just not used to. That and I was not and am still not familiar with these kinds of events. Maybe it’s normal. Maybe it’s not. You’ll have to ask somebody who’s not me.

The photographers were just setting up and people were handing their coats to the coat room and having numbers written in vivid on them, no fancy tickets here. But the two rooms were full of people already. I wondered how we were all going to fit judging on what I’d seen outside. But I exaggerated and it turned out that we were fine. But surprisingly it was easy to find a table. Well one side of one. I wasn’t hungry; we’d already eaten at her house before we came. But there was food. Not much compared to the people and I was sure that it would be gone pretty much instantly. I was right.

We sat down for most of that night. When I look back at it I feel bad that I ruined her night. She never asked to dance but somehow I could tell she wanted to. I think she was happy enough, being with me but I know that I could have made her happier. I could have an effort to be happy and try and get into the spirit of things. But it wouldn’t have been real.

But as much as I hated being there I loved the fact that I was with her and I would have gone to many more of those dam things just to be with her. I don’t think she knew that. We kissed, and I lied about the photos. Kissing her was definitely the easiest part of my night. It felt right at the time. Like something incredibly familiar and comforting. I also held her hand for most of the night, further reinforcing the puppy phenomenon that I was talking about before.

Looking back at it I regret some of what I did. But it’s done. So as her mother took me to the hotel where my parents were staying I was smiling. Not because I was out of that place. That quite honestly didn’t occur to me. I was happy because I had got to spend the night with her. And I fell asleep happy. Happy because I knew I’d left something at her house and I knew that I’d have to go back for it.


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Now I should say that this is based on my life. And some people will recognize that, obviously. And slowly as my supposed short story series go's on it will become less about my experiences and more about fiction. Also it's a perspectives exercise. Maybe move from first person to his and her. Maybe names later. I don't like naming short story characters. I just get attached to them and try to make the story longer.

But anyway. There we have the promised writing.

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